(Each type of Dependency relationship has a Life of its own)
Dependency Relationship #1:
This is equivalent to the example where Eve had a dependency relationship with Adam based on some need from Eve including Eve's company, her love, her sex, ETC. In any case, the need for what the other person could give him/her sets the dependency relationship.
Dependent relationships by its configuration, can automatically and without any dependent knowing the reason why, induce anger in another dependent to get some need met. The receiver of the anger feels high anxiety. However, the angry person is probably not aware that his anger is an error signal in the dependency relationship, designed thousands or even millions of years ago to cause anxiety in his dependent, where his dependent must obey him if he wants to lower this anxiety.
The field of Control Systems Engineering calls this a negative feedback control system and is a self-correcting Master-Slave configuration.
In other words, a dependency between two or more people form a built in people control mechanism that operates without the parties of the dependencies consciously aware this is happening. So, it should come as no surprise that Adam ate the apple to relieve his anxiety caused by Eve turning against God. Adam possibly got himself into trouble by needing Eve's visible pleasure more than God's hidden to the eyes Grace. Had Adam placed God's Grace as a higher priority than pleasure, Adam would have fallen back to his Primary Relationship with God and he would not have eaten the apple. I use Feedback Control System Engineering knowledge to design a change to our present People Systems that include Safeguarded Primary and Secondary relationships to offset the instability that causes the Mind Enslavement as described herein. (See 2.2 Safeguarded Life Oriented Way, for details.)
Remember that Dependent relationships are self-correcting systems, independent of the conscious awareness of the individual dependents.
Common Sense tells us there are two controllers in a dependency relationship consisting of two people. This is wrong. There are three controllers in a dependency relationship. There are the two dependents and the inherent built in self-correcting characteristics of a self-correcting dependency system. This is not commonly known to Man, and as such, is a hole in Man's consciousness.
Dependency Relationship #2:
What if Eve had a need from Adam but there was no mutual agreement concerning that need. Then, the only way Eve was going to get that need satisfied would be to totally Mind Enslave Adam. So, Eve could show apparent anger to Adam and knowing full well she would continue the acted anger with no intention of giving in to Adam. This causes Adam's Mind to automatically predict by its self-organizing toward a goal capability of his brain, a break in continuity of his coping rules. This causes automatic identification with Eve's request in order to offset the high anxiety caused by the predicted break in continuity. However, if Adam revolts against Eve's request, Adam turns his emotions into himself. But that behavior is against Adam's self-rules. This results in Adam's repression and denial that he is going against his own self-rules and therefore his own well-being. Adam would then exhibit a Mixed Emotions Personality disorder, where his negative emotions are turned in to himself and are therefore against his own self-rules. But he represses and denies his going against his own self-rules and presents statements of denial that he is going against his own self-rules. This second kind of control technique is a Mind Enslavement technique within a dependency relationship.
Dependency Relationship #3:
What if Eve had a friend (THE SNAKE) that talked Eve to slowly turn against Adam. So, Eve decided to go a little against Adam's requests. Then with the help of cognitive dissonance, Eve, without her realizing would slowly identify with her friend. Adam gives in to Eve's small change in request, to relieve his high anxiety. However, here too, cognitive dissonance wins and converts Adam to a total follower of Eve who is a total follower of her friend. This third kind of control technique is a two-loop Mind Enslavement technique. The first loop includes an interdependency relationship between an external AntiCivilized person and one person in the second dependency loop. In this way, a chain reaction is formed such that the External looped AntiCivilized person can control both people in the second dependency loop.
Dependency Relationship #4:
What if Eve's so called friend was a whore dressed in a cloak of righteousness and suddenly showed her Anti-Civilization ways, with no intention of giving in. In this case Eve would be totally Mind Enslaved by her so-called friend. Only now, Adam would also be enslaved to Eve's so-called friend, with repression and denial that this is happening.
Dependency Relationship #5:
This Dependency relationship is formed by a local Despot with intention to control an entire country by using the last Mind Enslaving approach.
Dependency Relationship #6:
This Dependency relationship is formed by a Master Despot using Terrorists, to Mind Enslave Civilized people, lesser Despots and Terrorists. In this case, the worst Despot wins. The worst despot is the one who is prepared to murder more of his own people for his own selfish cause than are his lesser Despots or Terrorists and even Freedom Fighters. In other words, the Master Despot does not care about the lives of his followers. Furthermore, the Master Despot has no choice other than burning his own people, if he wants to continue to Mind Enslave his own entranced subjects, lesser Despots and Terrorists along with the entranced Civilized people. Once the Master Despot and his Terrorist followers realize this possibility, they will look for a Third Way that does not include Death oriented Good and Bad or (Not safeguarded) Life oriented Good or Bad behavior. Instead the Despots and Terrorists will hopefully join with Civilized people toward a Third Safeguarded Higher Life-Systems way. Then we can go together toward Real Peace and Great Prosperity.
The Third Way requires all people to switch from the Master-Slave Dependency control system to value for value, adaptive control system relationships. The Third Way relationships are to consist of only Safeguarded equal rights to Life, Liberty and Pursuit of Happiness oriented people who first formed Primary relationships with Nature and/or God. This allows the Master Despot, his lesser Despots and his Terrorists to join with Safeguarded Life Oriented Free Man. The Master Despot is a predator and therefore may not know another way to survive. However, he is free to join with the Safeguarded Life Oriented Civilization. Last but not least, if the Safeguarded Life Oriented Free World does not play or identify with the remaining Anti-Civilized people, the remaining AntiCivilized people will first attack one another and finally destroy themselves naturally, because of their predator behavior. (See Table of Contents Section 2.2 Safeguarded Life Oriented Way, for details.)