Countering with Anti Civilized Honey-Stings, will mind enslave you because you identified with the Anti Civilized person and know no way out of this mind trap. Instead use Safeguarded LIFE orient Assertion (P'Kuach Nefesh) to get this person's return to the Safeguarded LIFE oriented context. One such Safeguard way is to counter with apparent abuse-simultaneous with-real respect.