The Responsibility-Pleasure becomes an against LIFE oriented Honey-Sting when responsible limits are exceeded. Therefore, if you place responsibility on the back burner slightly, cognitive dissonance within all apparent Honey-real Stings, cause repression and denial of responsible limits of pleasure, thereby, locking in irrational pleasure. The Safeguarded Countermeasure for this irrational behavior is to choose LIFE oriented LIMITS for that pleasure. Then, by staying within those LIMITS you maintain responsible behavior.